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About Asian hate
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- ゆみこ
- 2021/11/08 23:47
Have you ever felt ?
I have been feeling a no-welcome atmosphere lately, though somewhat, such as not making eye contact with the cashier, or being passed over when I say hello (because I'm wearing a mask ? \cHB093}.
Even at the pool, if another child was playing nearby, the parents would call them over and distance themselves. It was blatant because I was playing normally with other white kids.
Have you ever felt the change in daily life ?
I thought I was the only one who was concerned about it, so I made a topic about it.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- ほろと
- 2021/11/12 (Fri) 11:14
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I'm sorry you had a bit of a bad experience. It is unfortunate or sad, isn't it? I wonder how it is most of the time in everyday life, I feel like I feel Asian Hate most of the time, or I feel like it's a misunderstanding. When it's not really overt, it's very subtle. My African-American friends really seem to be standing in the middle of that subtlety all the time, and there is a sense that they are already used to it. Maybe because the world has become so sensitive to the feuds over race, our behavior becomes unnatural and we become a little self-conscious too. I try to be a positive member of society, to be kind to others, and to act with dignity. In our daily lives, we don't always know what people around us are thinking or how they feel about Asians, so there is often nothing we can do about it except to be firm in our presence. But I'm sure you have something to be concerned about. I wish you the best of luck.
This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- オレンジ
- 2021/11/15 (Mon) 16:04
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When I entered a museum, they gave brochures to everyone but me, but for some reason they didn't request them or feel their presence and I would think "That ? .... No, it's my imagination ?" at times. I often think that perhaps my intentions are not being conveyed because my voice is not very loud to begin with and I am wearing a mask even more. Although it has been only one year since I came to the U.S., I felt that people here communicate with their eyes, or in a style that is a little unfamiliar to us Japanese. I am wondering if this is the way to be buried. However, it is my own interpretation, but I feel that I am less likely to be asked for money on the street than people of other races. I think they probably don't know how to treat me and just pass me by. lol Overall, I feel that there are many kind people here, so it's no wonder that some people treat me a little differently. Incidentally, my husband is a foreigner, and he has felt a lot of discomfort in Asian countries (including Japan, of course). I guess it is the same everywhere.
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- ゆみこ
- 2021/11/16 (Tue) 01:35
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Mr. Horo
Yes ! that's it ! that's exactly what it is. I feel like I'm feeling it, and I feel like I'm mistaken. It's like.
But the frequency of that has increased. I try to be as open as possible, but it still breaks my heart when they ignore me. I want to be nice to them, but I wonder if I am bothering them.
I am becoming more and more shy, but after reading your post, I decided to be open and honest. I will try to keep a balance.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- ゆみこ
- 2021/11/16 (Tue) 01:37
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Orange
That was hard for you. My daughter also had a case where she was the only one who didn't get trick or treat candy. She is only 2 years old, so I don't think she really understood what was going on, but it was heartbreaking.
If your husband has been in Asia, I'm sure he has felt the same way. If you're an ethnic group that doesn't speak English, I'm sure you'd feel extra soppy when you saw your husband. Overall, it's true that most people are kind ! I have to see the good side too.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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As Yumiko said, I think it's great that you are trying to keep a balance. However, when people ignore you, it can really break your heart, can't it? But when I deal with various people at work, I think that there must be people who don't have enough room in their hearts to be kind to others. I try to think that when I meet someone who is cold, after I happen to experience something unpleasant, or when I am very busy, I lose my meticulousness towards people, and I think that everyone has that kind of thing ( lol ). Well, whether it's right or wrong, I feel like I'm happier when I think that way. But I think it's also important to be firm when you are treated unfairly, overtly. I hope that other Asian people in particular will not have to go through the same experience, even if only a little bit. It is difficult in many ways, but let's do our best.
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Due to the ongoing WWII Japanese American internment system, there were no or few Japanese American communities in the U.S. Instead, when I arrived here in 2004, it was Chinatown in Oakland that accepted me.
To be honest, class cleansing in Chinatown has been going on at least since just after World War II, and violence against Asians has been going on since the end of the Edo period when Asians first came to the US.Asians and Asian Americans have been fighting since then. But no one accepted Asians. To create an image of a race that "obeys whites with an open heart." My church--a temple--decided to call it a "church" even though it was a Buddhist temple during the incarceration era. Before that, Buddhist Nikkei were arrested by the FBI and others, like Muslims these days--I learned that kind of history in the Buddhist ・ Church ・ of ・ Oakland.
California, and Chinatown, you know, started long before I first came here--the Asian elderly always going missing.
Asians, especially Asian women but also men, being singled out for sexual/domestic violence.
If we even try to say a word about all of this to non-Asians, we are called liars and subjected to further verbal and physical violence. They will tell you that they have never been called a liar, and they will say they have never been called a liar.
The only thing that changed was that for a moment the media acknowledged our suffering. It was only for a moment, but because of that we could fight it for a long time.
I joined the civilian patrol in Oakland Chinatown a few months ago. Asians are always laughed at by the police - so Asians facing domestic violence, who lost their beautiful apartment in 2014 and are in debt that cannot be exceeded by $21,000, are "not real cases". \It's not a real case...(I'm male, but I'm a gender crosser, and the police didn't know me that well...) but Asians can now protect their community.
And then I joined a group to restore the original Chinatown.
I can't say I'm fluent in Cantonese, and I don't feel lonely here because there are so few Japanese, but we are all * the same person * and Chinatown has been a kind place for me for many years with no community and no living family. I have no community, no living family. So I think we should all grab each other's hands and fight the hate.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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